Blast from the past: Maputo 12/12/2013

Maputo 12/12/2013
I have suppressed my feelings for so long, I do not know what I feel. I am lonely here in Maputo, that is for sure, but that was a choice.I am starting to understand the part in the Bible where it says "do not forsake to meet with each other ...". I think this is twofold, first for meeting as 'Christians ' or children of God, for strengthening each other and secondly meeting as people, to have social interaction. This interaction is what makes us alive and being human. That is what I miss now. Being totally alone is hard. I miss friendly interaction, not professional / work interaction.

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